The Reason for Gay and Lesbian Characteristics and Feelings By Norma Holt

It is an abomination that the prejudice against LGBT people is led mostly by religious teachings. This is based on the bible, mostly the New Testament, that has a dubious origin and was produced by Jerome, the doctor of the Catholic Church. My reincarnation brought me back from being a man in my last life to a woman's body in this one. It was confusing at first and many issues had to be worked through before accepting my new form.

Many are born with this dilemma. They simply can't adjust to their situation and when memories of their former self play havoc they try to revert to their previous roles. It doesn't mean that they remember their reincarnation because most don't. The other thing that happens is if they are aware of and talk about it they may well be talked out of it.

In my case another language came with me that protected my memory and for years the Spirit warned me not to say anything. It is that communication with the Higher Power that led me to research the origin of the religious roots. They were found in Babylon and the Islamic religion of that city.

There the Mother God was Mary, which means 'mother's powerful eye' and that is the sun. In worship of the stylised woman created by men to worship 'her' they forbid any form of sexual pleasure that was not of 'marriage' formalised in a ritual. Women were and are discriminated against because of the male relationship with this image.

The Catholic Church was established by Constantine based on these Islamic principles. He was a Roman Emperor with power to force everyone to worship the beast he created, namely Jesus Christ (Revelation 13:15) and he is 666 (ibid 13:18).

The New Testament came into being later when Jerome was appointed to create a text that all could follow in order to intensify the religious power and to bring the fledgling church together. Augustine was appointed to form the Muslim Branch to further strengthen its influence and control. These things happened at the end of the 4th and beginning of the 5th centuries.

The Vatican, which was built by Constantine over the temple of Jupiter (Peter in English) is called St. Peter's because of its location. Jerome 'doctored' the Septuagint, a book of Jewish origin, and added stories to it while changing some to suit his work. He noted this in his diaries. He added to and subtracted from it at will before publishing the combined work as the Vulgate.

He also changed the language of the Church to Latin, one he was familiar with, to avoid criticism by the Jews. The power the religion has over people remains because 666 was given free reign over the people and the World Order is based on his systems.

The LGBT communities are victims of both the religions and the systems that started in Babylon and continue today. It's the Spirit that is enabling the truth to be told and it has supplied the Internet so that all can see it without charge. We are in the end times when it is prophesied that the facts will be revealed.

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50 Years of Decriminalising Homosexuality By Rikki Arundel

So 50 years ago, 27th July, the Sexual Offences Act 1967 received royal assent, partially decriminalising homosexuality and starting a long a difficult journey to end discrimination and harassment of LGBT people.

I was 17 years old at the time and very much in the closet as a trans woman - and terrified at the thought that I might also be 'homosexual'. It's difficult I think now for people to grasp just how frightening life was for all LGBT people back then, in the "Summer of Love." The news about the change in law was definitely not received well in my house.

Mid 1967 was an amazing time. The Labour Party under Harold Wilson's Leadership had secured a significant majority in the previous year and were now actively seeking to bring about social change. The Beatles had just released "Sgt. Peppers" heralding a new era in popular music and hippy flower power was transforming youth culture around the world. Britain had also officially applied to join the EEC, later to become the EU, which would become the catalyst for the positive changes in LGBT Law we all now enjoy.

But before the positive changes in LGBT law following the election of New Labour, we would still have to experience a severe hardening of negative attitudes. First the Sexual Offences Act of 1976 did not decriminalise homosexuality. The offence of gross indecency, which had resulted in Oscar Wilde's imprisonment, remained until 2003. In fact, as Peter Tatchell has shown, arrests for gross indecency increased by 400% by the mid seventies and remained at that level into the 1990's.

The 1967 Act applied specifically to consenting gay men, over the age of 21, who engaged in a sexual relationship 'in private'. Courts interpreted 'in private' very strictly as meaning 'no one else in the building.' As a result police aggressively persecuted gay men if they met a partner in a hotel room, which was not considered to be in private. Even simple acts of holding hands or winking at another man were likely to result in an arrest.

In fact between 1967 and 1997, legislation in the UK made life increasingly difficult for all LGBT people. In 1970 the annulment of April Ashley's marriage meant that transpeople could not legally change gender, meaning that many trans women were now treated as men and charged with gross indecency and sodemy.

During the 80's HIV and AIDs were seen my the conservative government as a 'gay plague' and in 1988, motivated by moral panic they enacted Section 28 of the local Government Act to make it illegal for the public sector to treat homosexuality as normal. As a result all public education about same sex relationships ceased until this was finally repealed in 2003.

You can perhaps understand from this why the LGBT community is celebrating this 50th anniversary so enthusiastically. Its not just about celebrating what happened 50 years ago - it is celebrating a 50 year battle. The offences of gross indecency and sodemy actually were still applicable in Scotland until 2013. Same sex marriage was finally allowed in the same year.

In 2015 over 7000 LGBT people reported hate crimes. In fact research indicates that over 75% of LGBT people have experienced hate crime though 95% of those crimes were never reported.

Celebrating this 50 year milestone as we have in Hull this past week is great and a reminder that we have now won most of the legal battles for equality. However, while changing the law has been difficult, changing attitudes is a much more difficult challenge we still have to win.

About the Author:

Founder of the Professional Speaking Association, Rikki Arundel is an Inspirational Keynote Speaker, Coach and Diversity Training Expert who speaks extensively about Sex, Gender and Equality, especially Transgender Awareness. Her seminars, like her articles, are rich in content but entertaining.

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Gays - Nurture or Nature?

"Hey quickly look, see that guy over there", let us face the fact these are the stereotypical comments we tend to pass whenever we encounter such an individual who is amongst us but most probably we try to isolate this person just because he is a bit different, can you justify this? Let us start from the basics. A gay is generally a person who is sexually attracted to the same sex, can be addressed as a homosexual. Today we will examine the intricacies of this as well as examine the reasons and controversies that are associated with it. Intensive research has been undertaken to find the possible genetic, hormonal, developmental, social and cultural influences on sexual orientation but no findings have been able to prove that these feelings emerging within an individual are determined by a specific factor.

One of the controversies so proclaims that less gendered socialization in early childhood or preadolescence can ultimately result in a same sex romantic preference. Few reports also state that higher rates of fetal loss, low birth weights and physical deformity can cause disruption in the development. It may result in ultimately bringing these individuals towards homosexuality. If we see deeper there are a variety of psychological reasons which can eventually lead an individual to become a homosexual. We will carefully observe those. The first one is unhealthy childhood relationships with females. Who says only males can wound girls? Girls in multiple ways do the same to any male existing in her environment. If we consider females it includes mothers, sisters, female relatives and other extended family members. Criticizing one for his weaknesses, lowering his morale can cause lasting feelings of shame, insecurity and lack of self confidence which is mandatory for one's survival in this dog eat dog world.

Feminizing male, passing disgraceful comments and trying to sexualize him by commenting and mocking on one's body shape. It may seem as a joke but it has disastrous effects making the male either moving away from females by rejecting or developing hatred towards them, on the contrary there are many chances that males may feel endangered by women and thus prefer to establish a relationship with a same sex as a safer choice making him a homosexual. In one's childhood after encountering unhealthy relationships with females can cause a man's concept of females to be distorted hence distancing themselves and perceiving all women to be dominating, powerful, controlling and manipulative.

Due to these experiences a male can feel overpowered, inferior and develop complexes. Hence feeling incapable of getting into a relationship with a female hence the individual finds it better to be with a same sex companion. The consequences are such that one starts feeling incongruent with one's own genders as they have perceived themselves as inappropriate and inefficient. Constant allegations on one to be called feminine can cause the unconscious mind to be drawn towards males. Sexual abuse by males and early exposure to pornography can also aid in intensifying homosexuality. Have you ever been a victim of child abuse or molestation? There are chances for you being prone towards this. As we are living in the 21st century there are many cultural influences that have highly affected today's generations. The homosexuality culture is something that makes oneself curious and wishes to explore new avenues. Pro-homosexual sex education and also depictions of homosexuality as a casual behavior has leaded an individual to choose a 'Gay" life.

Is it wrong or right? Acceptable or Unacceptable? We are no one to judge this. All we can do is treat all individuals with equality and respect. Can't we?

Gay Marriage and Similarity With Legitimising Children Born Out of Wedlock (By Norma Holt)

It is not that long ago that children who were born to unwed parents were ostracised by society and illegitimate according to the law. The only thing they were responsible for was being born of parents whom religion targeted because their union was not 'sanctioned' by the Church. That type of baloney is no different to banning gay or transvestite people from legal recognition of their love for each other and a bonding relationship.

The Catholic Church uses marriage as a sacrament and is bitterly opposed to anything that weakens its grip over society. Established by Constantine, a Roman Caesar who is identified as 666 in Revelation 13:12-18, the religion has used everything from violence to murder to maintain its position.

Thankfully people are waking up to its lies and the agenda it serves, but not quickly enough. It is based on the premise of heaven and hell as places of eternity after death. This is its greatest lie as no such places exist.

Professing to hold the 'keys to heaven' its rituals and laws are based on those of ancient Babylon and the Islamic religion, which developed in that city. Constantine was an Amorite, that is the nation who raided Italy and built Roma (reverse Amor).

He reinstated Mary, the Mother God of that city, as the Mother of God. Men marry 'Mary' to become priests, exactly as was practiced in that place. Jerome, who followed soon after, wrote the New Testament based on the laws, festivals, calendar, and rituals of Islam.

My research into the roots of Catholicism and, therefore, religion followed my reincarnation and knowledge that there is a Great Spirit of the Universe that controls all things. Nowhere in the bible is marriage mentioned and as the New Testament is fake anything in it is not and should not be of concern.

Just as people fought to be recognised as legitimate in the eyes of the law those who are gay or transvestite are fighting now a very similar battle. As a man in my last life and a female in this one it is something I understand all too well.

In my early life my body felt strange but the insight given to me showed that this was done for a reason. I missed the strength of being a man and have never been 'womanly' as such, although I am also not gay. It is time, therefore, to put all questions of equality to rest and to legalimise same-sex marriage. After all, what harm is it to anyone other than the Catholic Church?

If people want a ritual and to dress up in fancy clothes and have a party, then they should be allowed to do so. While there is no such thing now as an 'illegitimate' child, nor should there be prejudice and hate towards those who life their life in a loving relationship outside of what is considered the 'norm'.

Norma Holt knows that the basic premise of the world order is upholding religious ideology and myths. Her extensive research went to the heart of the heaven and hell scenario to demonstrate how far man has gone to create his own paradise on earth while living through hell to do it.

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Depression Is Caused By Lying To Yourself

 

Life is a lie. That sounds like a standard statement of a depressed person, but our discussion here is to show that believing a lie causes depression.

Let's begin with saying that depression can be mild, momentary, brief or, long and deep. Whatever the level of depression you feel, or have felt, a probable original cause is believing a lie of some sort to some degree.

Because this article can sound negative, I would like to ask you to not take any of this as negative. That would be your imagination again. This is so positive if you are willing to open your mind and break the illusion you want to live with, the illusion that has been fed to you, the great lie.

The let down when you have trusted someone or had faith in something that turns out to not be true or not deliver on the promised or hoped for outcome, will often result in depression. The length and depth of the depression is determined by your personal resilience and attachment to the hoped for future.

Usually, when we want something very badly, the desire comes with a level of doubt that we will get it, and that usually means we are closing an eye to the reality, and hoping that all works out the way we want.

The more difficult your life is, the more problems and loneliness you have or, whatever you are lacking to make you happy, the more open you will be to believe a lie that promises happiness.

This is the principle behind a revolution and rise of a dictator for example. The masses are desperate enough they will believe that the leader will change the way the country is run, only to put him in power and find out he is even worse. The same principle goes for the birth of a new religion or false teacher.

The disappointment is depressing and starts more unrest. The world has seen so many of these situations with the French, Russian and other revolutions in the past.

Religion can be one of the biggest let downs in life. The only thing that keeps religions with the promise of the good loving God going is that either the person is bred to have blind faith since birth so it is too deeply programmed to reject, or they are so desperate they have no one else to turn to.

Governments are theoretically meant to protect and serve the citizens. Marriage is supposed to be for better or worse, till death do you part. We all know what lies those and so many other promises are. In recent years, people are more and more discouraged because the promise that if you work hard and save up, you will have a nice retirement, is not at all guaranteed.

Living a life based on lies will result in disappointment and that leads to depression when there are enough repeated disappointments. Finding a partner through the process of dating can become very depressing after so many lies come out with every one you meet. This makes finding 'the one' a hopeless concept, and thus one enters all new relationships with doubt and distrust rather than hope and an open mind.

We are faced with a choice; see the truth about human nature and life on earth, or live with your eyes closed and hope for the best as you blindly wander through life.

The latter is what many people choose to live with, but that always brings a letdown.

The truth shall set you free

This ancient saying is a truth. Accepting the truth frees you from; your mind and imagination. It is our imagination that is behind our depression because it lifts us up only to be dropped crashing on sharp rocks down below.

Im not saying we should not be creative and use our imagination. I am referring to the imagination that wants to believe things that are simply not true.

The disappointment is finding out that what we thought was true is ultimately not. That's ultimately guaranteed when you believe a lie. Then you may either become hopeless because your last hope turned out to be a lie, or you could feel like a fool and idiot for having believed something that you now see was so obviously false that only an idiot would have fallen for that.

There was a man I knew who had gangrene in his toe. He refused to have it amputated and believed it would heal as he was a 'man of faith' and refused to accept the truth. It eventually spread and he lost his whole leg. The lie that God would heal his toe only led to a major depression and limited life. But if he accepted the truth that God, if there even is a god as the religions want us to believe, is not going to get involved in your life, and you have to take responsibility for yourself and accept the facts of life as a human, and keep your leg and foot and four toes.

Either way, it is depressing. So the resolution to depressed thoughts caused by believing all the lies is in accepting the truth of the world, life and the nature of human nature. I am not going to point out all the many lies that our world and humanity is filled with, rather, it will be better for you to discover what lies you are falling for that have let you down.

Yes, it is nice to believe that essentially all humans are good, but the fact is that self-preservation and self-interest with all the greed that humans are ruled by, are more powerful than the essential subtle goodness in our soul.

The point is to say; see everything objectively, see everyone objectively as the human animal nature which rules them, see whatever you believe your religion to be objectively, and stop living on hope of the impossible or winning the lottery. Salmons swim upstream, but they die in the journey.

But most importantly, see yourself objectively and when you catch that your imagination has you believing a lie, instantly admit your mistake and move forward with your new belief.

The best method of altering the proportion of lies to truth, to the majority being on the side of truth, is to live based on the evidence. It's a simple two steps.

Think about this. How many people have delivered on their promises? How many have let you down? How many smart people compared to stupid people have you encountered? How many times has God delivered a miracle without you having actually been the main participant?

Live based on the evidence, treating every situation and event based on the evidence rather than blind hope, and you will find that there are so many less disappointments.

That is the first step towards ending depression and making life more livable. It also makes you far more successful because you will see what is really happening and take action to protect yourself from loss, or move forward on opportunities while everyone else sits back in their dream state.

The second step is simply to take responsibility for your life. Accept what comes to you, what you have and do not have. If you do not like it, then do whatever it takes to change it. You and you alone are the only one you can rely on. The rest are just lucky chances that worked out well, but not to be counted on.

There is a reason for this world to be based on these lies, and that is something you may discover on your own, but you have to first see all this as positive and freeing. The truth will set you free as your eyes open to reality which will be like gaining perfect vision after living near blind your whole life. There is a lot more to see than you realise, and this is called having cutting insight.

My Life (Growing up as a Gay man)

Growing up in Uganda, homosexuality was something we never talked much about. It was for this reason that I grew up different from other children in our village. For example around the age of 12 years I found I had difficulties to make friends with my fellow boys in traditional known ways, like playing childhood and teenage games, instead, I found myself sexually attracted to them.

However coming from a strong Anglican back ground, (my Mum was a born-again Christian and a warden in the church) I grew up, with my brothers and sisters knowing we have to have to accent to that religious set-up. We grew up to know that religious leaders preached the well-known mantra, that homosexuality is a sin, and goes against God’s wishes. We therefore never got to think about it much.

As I grew up and joined secondary school and high up post –secondary institutions, that’s when I actually realized that I was attracted to boys. I think other students knew but couldn’t say it to my face. Instead, they found it opportune to tease me, calling me girls’ names. With my background, this created social problems for me, as I was not naturally attracted to girls like all other friends of mine and yet I couldn’t date my fellow boys. I was the only one who never had a girlfriend, for example.  I therefore ended up confused and living like a recluse. I was lost. I didn’t know what was happening to me at first, but even when I knew, I felt disempowered, for I couldn’t live the life I wanted, even though it wasn’t my own making. I ended up growing up a very shy boy with confidence issues. However I started dating another shy boy when I was in secondary school. But at this time, as I said earlier, I didn’t even know what homosexuality was as it’s a word that was never talked about. What I knew though, was that it was taboo and so against regulations. So we had to hide as much as we could. Actually nothing sexual took place at this time but we knew ourselves to be in love. We used to exchange few, cheap gifts (we were as broke as a church mouse) like hankies, buying cards for each other and really being close together whenever opportunity arose. This relationship ended quickly as we went to different schools for our A’levels. At University, I got in love with another friend of mine. This was kept a high level secret between us. Having an advantage of sharing a hostel room worked well for us. Other students would think we were just room—mates, as we could try to avoid being together outside our room. 

Leading this kind of life led me to develop clinical depression which I have been able to be supported out of, with the help of psycho-therapy. I can now talk freely of my natural being.

In Uganda, many people who get to be known as gay’s life is bleak. They are pursued by mobs, tortured by police, or run out of their homes.

Things for me started to change when I came to the UK. I actually got surprised to find gay people walking out free and saying it in public and even on some national TVs. But still, it wasn’t easy for me to openly come out due to the hard wired belief systems in my mind. I was in a community of many Ugandans and I knew I could one time go back to Uganda. This made me think I would face a bad situation if that was to happen.

My Mental health condition deteriorated and required me to talk to the GP about it. Funny enough, I could not associate my anxieties and panic attacks to my history, until the GP referred me to “Time to Talk”. The psychotherapist I was given was a gem. By listening to my past history, she was quick to point out where the problem came from. She did all she could to encourage me to come out and reassured me that nothing would happen to me while in this country. Since I came out, I’ve been at peace with my sexuality. My sexuality has been a learning experience in my life. I rejoice in my sexuality and know that…..and l look forward to my presuos time ahead

When I came out as gay the sort of hysteria that has since overwhelmed my friends and other people in our community was unthinkable. And indeed if I was still in Uganda, I probably wouldn’t tell anyone.

It is true that same-sex sexual acts between consenting adults have been illegal in Uganda since the British introduced their Penal Code during their rule. However the Anti-Gay Act that was passed and later quashed by the courts of Law was an expanded criminalisation and virulent homophobia that was another gift to society to harass people.

The Ugandan supporters of the anti-gay law say they are countering foreign influences and the international pressure to support homosexuality. In signing the law, President Museveni wanted “to demonstrate Uganda’s independence in the face of Western pressure and provocation” as though this were an act of resisting neo-colonial power.

It is simply untrue that homosexuality is un-African. Same sex-sexual conduct existed in various forms throughout Africa before the colonial period; same-sex relationships were known among several groups in Uganda, including the Bahima, the Banyoro and the Baganda. King Mwanga 11 the last pre-colonial ruler of what is now Uganda was said to have engaged in sexual relations with male courtiers.

I am a gay man. I am Ugandan. There is nothing un-African about me. Uganda is where I was born, grew up, and I call it my home. It is also a country in which I have become little more than an un-apprehended criminal because of who I am and whom I love. I want my fellow Ugandans to understand that homosexuality is not a Western Import and our friends in the developed world to recognise that the current trend of homophobia is destroying many lives in Uganda.

50 Years of Decriminalising Homosexuality

So 50 years ago, 27th July, the Sexual Offences Act 1967 received royal assent, partially decriminalising homosexuality and starting a long a difficult journey to end discrimination and harassment of LGBT people.

I was 17 years old at the time and very much in the closet as a trans woman - and terrified at the thought that I might also be 'homosexual'. It's difficult I think now for people to grasp just how frightening life was for all LGBT people back then, in the "Summer of Love." The news about the change in law was definitely not received well in my house.

Mid 1967 was an amazing time. The Labour Party under Harold Wilson's Leadership had secured a significant majority in the previous year and were now actively seeking to bring about social change. The Beatles had just released "Sgt. Peppers" heralding a new era in popular music and hippy flower power was transforming youth culture around the world. Britain had also officially applied to join the EEC, later to become the EU, which would become the catalyst for the positive changes in LGBT Law we all now enjoy.

But before the positive changes in LGBT law following the election of New Labour, we would still have to experience a severe hardening of negative attitudes. First the Sexual Offences Act of 1976 did not decriminalise homosexuality. The offence of gross indecency, which had resulted in Oscar Wilde's imprisonment, remained until 2003. In fact, as Peter Tatchell has shown, arrests for gross indecency increased by 400% by the mid seventies and remained at that level into the 1990's.

The 1967 Act applied specifically to consenting gay men, over the age of 21, who engaged in a sexual relationship 'in private'. Courts interpreted 'in private' very strictly as meaning 'no one else in the building.' As a result police aggressively persecuted gay men if they met a partner in a hotel room, which was not considered to be in private. Even simple acts of holding hands or winking at another man were likely to result in an arrest.

In fact between 1967 and 1997, legislation in the UK made life increasingly difficult for all LGBT people. In 1970 the annulment of April Ashley's marriage meant that transpeople could not legally change gender, meaning that many trans women were now treated as men and charged with gross indecency and sodemy.

During the 80's HIV and AIDs were seen my the conservative government as a 'gay plague' and in 1988, motivated by moral panic they enacted Section 28 of the local Government Act to make it illegal for the public sector to treat homosexuality as normal. As a result all public education about same sex relationships ceased until this was finally repealed in 2003.

You can perhaps understand from this why the LGBT community is celebrating this 50th anniversary so enthusiastically. Its not just about celebrating what happened 50 years ago - it is celebrating a 50 year battle. The offences of gross indecency and sodemy actually were still applicable in Scotland until 2013. Same sex marriage was finally allowed in the same year.

In 2015 over 7000 LGBT people reported hate crimes. In fact research indicates that over 75% of LGBT people have experienced hate crime though 95% of those crimes were never reported.

Celebrating this 50 year milestone as we have in Hull this past week is great and a reminder that we have now won most of the legal battles for equality. However, while changing the law has been difficult, changing attitudes is a much more difficult challenge we still have to win.